My time

This will be a challenge for her and for Matt. Neither of them have someone like me to show what a TRUE woman should be. This has nothing to do with Matt’s moms at all, this has everything to do with the cunt that is failing as a woman. Yeah, I said it, my opinion that you keep choosing to read. In your moths-fuckin face 😉

This little girl, I have know the past three years, is picking up her mothers life style, which is dirty, lazy, and narcissistic, and duh, a failure of a woman. This woman chooses to treat everyone around her to accommodate her in all aspects and throws a tantrum when it’s not her way. The attitude she has of using people disgusts me and the aftermath of her destruction should be illegal. 

This behavior is chosen and when successful, becomes a deathly weapon. She throws away people after they can no longer provide her services. They will also destroy what they can to your life in punishment and for their amusement. I know this because I was raised by one and I CHOSE NOT TO. It really is that simple, if I have to explain you’re also a cunt.  

Prestyn gets her way with most of the adults, Matt does better than the rest but that’s not saying much. There are times he will point out her behavior but won’t address it. This is where I have to step in and be the hardest on her. This also means I need to put more time in our relationship to build positivity. She will hate me most days, but in the end I could change her ways to becoming a better woman. 

That may be how I feel, but not sure I should even try. Matt could be upset about how I handle situations which will cause issues for us. The rest of the family that “still” like me may turn against me, then there were none. Also, putting that much effort into someone that may refuse and turn their back on me, not sure I can handle it. 

No, I don’t know the fucking future, as my son puts it. I do know that people choose to be lazy, dirty, and narcissistic. Okay not all are lazy and dirty, just most of the ones that I know are.  Kids will get away with anything if you let them, they will push you every time to get their way. Prestyn is no different than other kids, except her mother has no control of her. Prestyn needs stability and structure in her life, that’s the opposite of her mother.

Prestyn watches her mother not put effort into herself unless she’s going out with friends or another victim. She doesn’t care about her job, always late and never consistent. She also sees her not putting any effort into keeping the house clean, so why should Prestyn keep her things clean, she doesn’t. Prestyn is highly influenced at her age and her mother will ruin the outlook on what life is really about. 

I need to become her manager, she has a mother, but she doesn’t have someone to show her how to be a good mother/woman. This is my chance to become her manager/teacher/someone she can look to for advice. Prestyn wants to learn, wants to see the right ways of doing things, to learn from someone that actually cares. I will be that someone for her, teach her the right way to do laundry, instead of living out of a basket and wrinkled clothes. I will show her how to clean and organize, to live without chaotic stress over things you can control. 

One thing I’ve learned this week with Prestyn is that she won’t argue when Matt and I back each other up. For example, she will ask for something and if Matt says no, she will come back and ask a different way. This is where I said “what did your dad just tell you?”, and she walked away with no more arguments. She sees us as a united team that will support each other and she knows there’s no reason to keep arguing.